"Women are hard to understand"
This is what most people especially guys (or guys at heart) say. As a girl, I've gone through this situation and I can say that its inevitable. Really. Sometimes, people tend to make the same mistakes not once but twice. Or even thrice. And if you do it while you're in a relationship, the other party will get annoyed, of course. That's how FRAGILE girls are. It's either they'll act strange towards you or because it's visible that their gestures actually say, "Something is really wrong."
I did an interview to this problem because having a situation can help you relate more. After asking a few friends, I came up with three of them answering my questions. Here's how the 1st ended:
Me: Have you experienced something like this?
Her: Yes.
Me:So why didn't you tell?
Her: I never had a relationship but I realized it in a denial stage.
Me: How?
Her: There was this certain day that all he do was talk and talk about his crush. I even made him eat icecream so that he'd stop but he didn't. You could say I was annoyed that time.
Me: And the effect was?
Her: I wasn't in the mood to go home with him. I didn't want to see him that I hid in the toilet just to get rid of him. I told him that I was waiting for a friend but he won't let me off the hook. He's so dense that he asked me what's wrong. (laughs)
Me: (laughs) What did you say to him then?
Her: I told him it was nothing.
Me: Why didn't you just tell him?
Her: I didn't want him to know that he's my problem because I don't want him to be pushed away. He'll definitely start to avoid me to prevent me from getting hurt.
After hearing those words, I started a What-If conversation.
Me: What if that person and you were together, would you tell him then?
Her: Yes, I'll tell him the problem.
Me: Okay, I'll put you in a situation but same position, you two are still together. What if he was making the same mistakes again and again and you keep telling the problem until you got fed up?
Her: I'd stop telling. I want him to realize it himself. If he's still so dense it'd only make everything worse. He SHOULD realize it.
* And with that said, I can only say one thing: Sometimes we should reflect on what we've done because not everything is all about spoon feeding.
OPINION OF THE GUYS.
Me: Have you experienced something like this?
Guy 1: Of course. Why?
Me: For an interview. Anyway, what can you say about it?
Guy 1: Girls shouldn't be like that. What kind of boy friend am I if I can't even know what her problem was. And if she really wants me and cares for me, she should help me understand my mistake so that we can fix it. That's all man.
Me: What if she doesn't want to tell because you had an arguement and she wants you to realize the problem on your own?
Guy 1: Even if she wants to make up with me, I won't. Not until the problem is solved. But then again, if she still won't tell after everything I told here, then it simply means that she doesn't care.
* Each person really is different by nature :> We can always clear a misunderstanding before it's too late.
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Me: What can you say about this issue?
Guy 2: I'm good with these kind of things so I can sense whether she has a problem or not. So I act as if I don't know a thing 'cause I;m waiting for her to tell me. If she wants to hide it from me, then so be it. I'll just wait until she spill it. Eventually, she'll tell me and we'll talk about it until it's settled.
* Quite a gentleman we got here :)) And that's all for today's Interview Bloos with Musume Sai. Take care huys :P
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